Red Pill stuff
"Have you considered that the core, steelmanned concepts of "The Red Pill" are valid, and sensitive/romantic men beyond top 10-20% attractiveness levels are not only severely disadvantaged on the dating scene, but also won't meet their emotional needs, as female love style is by default less romantic and more opportunistic/performance-based (e.g. women perceive men as men perceive jobs)?"
Ooooh I think I can answer this one. Women are generally more oriented toward "romantic style" love than men are, as confirmed by both my internal experiences and the audience demographics for romcoms and romance novels. The asker's observations are real but are explained by:
- romantic men not asking women out as much as men with impulsive personalities
- women being trained to not communicate what they enjoy in relationships, leaving them sad and unsatisfied for no apparent reason
- people in general being motivated by money - would you turn it down if someone not that attractive offered you a mansion, a yacht, and your own private fully-staffed professional grade psychiatric research lab to do whatever you wanted with?